Plus Size Outfits for Serious Occasions

Posted on August 22, 2018 by Jen Anderson | 1 comment

Funerals. I mean funerals. We don't like to think about it, but it's a fact of life and you'll be much happier if you have a serious outfit in your closet in advance. OK, maybe not happier. But a lot less stressed. 

I know you really don't want to think about it, but when your Great-Aunt Gertrude goes into hospice, you'll want to spend your time with her instead of hitting the mall. And it seems a lot creepier to go shopping for a specific funeral than simply because death is a thing. Besides, you're plus size - you know the chances of you finding any outfit at the last minute is slim.

navy plus size outfit for funeralDepending on your religion and family traditions, you may need multiple funeral outfits. There might be a couple of days of wakes or visitations. You might be sitting shiva for a week. It's a stressful time and having a wardrobe that can handle it will be a relief.

You Can't Go Wrong With Black

This is where your Little Black Dress comes into play. You can wear an LBD to all sorts of events, so you don't have to think of it as a funeral dress until the time comes. I actually have two LBDs - one long sleeved for Winter (our 3/4 Sleeve A-Line Dress or Faux Wrap Maxi Dress) and one short sleeved for Summer (our Maxi Tank Dress, Jewel Neckline Maxi Dress, or Sleeveless Shift Dress will do nicely). The T-Shirt Style Dress is a bit too kicky and fun for a funeral - unless you're really happy the miserable jerk is gone, in which case dress accordingly.

You'll also need a top layer like a 3/4 Sleeve Cardigan in case of overactive air conditioning and places of worship that don't allow bare arms.

As always, black pants can also function as an LBD. Palazzo Pants are particularly good for this.

white silk plus size clothingWhite Works Too

If you're in the immediate family, you may choose to wear white either by itself or along with black in a Print. It conveys a striking serenity. Some cultures and religions actually prefer white for funerals, so if you're attending a Buddhist funeral go with white.

Beyond Black

You've got some wiggle room, especially when attending wakes, visitations, shivas - pretty much any event not held in a place of worship. Darker colors are your friend here. Coffee is an excellent choice. Navy or Marine Blue would also work well.

The First 3 Letters of Funeral are FUN

Which is why my husband's uncle requested door prizes for his funeral. (They were a big hit.) If you're asked to wear Red (like at Jim Henson's funeral), just do it - even if red isn't your color. If they requested Hawaiian Skirts, go with it. This isn't about you. If the deceased didn't want you dressing somberly, then roll with it. But only do this when requested.

Seize the Day

I know. You're thinking, "yeah, I should totally get a funeral-appropriate outfit right after I get on with everything else I need to do." Just get it over with now and you won't have to worry about it later.

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Nancy
Nancy

August 22, 2018

Thank you for bringing this up, Jen, because — indeed — it can be difficult to find appropriate clothing for a funeral on short notice. As you said, black or navy always works well. And yes, more and more people are requesting that folks not wear dark, somber colors for these occasions. That can include white – thank you for having an inter-religious sensitivity in what you wrote.

I’m a minister. I conduct worship weekly and I go to a fair number of memorials and funerals, etc. For Sunday I almost always wear my Vikki Vi Jersey Black Pull-on Pants. I’d be utterly lost without this piece of clothing! I usually wear colorful tops and sweaters or jackets (I wear a minister’s robe very seldom), often dressing in colors according to the liturgical season.

For more formal occasions I wear the black pants and a black jacket, usually with a more colorful jersey tank or top underneath. I use my large collection of cross pendants and other jewelry to liven up outfits.

I can’t tell you the last time I wore a skirt! Call me lazy :-) but I have not been to ANY occasion in years (be it a wedding, funeral, the opera, or a fancy party) when black jersey pants and an appropriate top didn’t do the trick. I live in the SF Bay Area, so less formal wear is pretty common here. I’m also a professor, so “business casual” is perfect for the classroom. My Vikki Vi pieces are absolutely “go to” for teaching and for faculty meetings, etc.

For my professional wardrobe, I have yet to find anyone better, all around, than Plus By Design/Vikki Vi. Bless you!

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