We (as a society) don't talk about upper arms as much as we should. I can talk all day long about how to dress when your hips, boobs, or tummy are disproportionately abundant. And I will talk your ear off about it because the more we talk about it, the more we can realize that not having an hourglass figure is perfectly normal. Having large upper arms is also a fairly typical situation. But it seems to be especially shameful for reasons that I don't really fathom.